Suggested Questions for Roommates

One roommate reading and one washing dishes

Tip: Most off-campus properties won't let you move to another unit or get out of your lease if you have roommate conflict.

Expectations when looking for an apartment together

  • What is your budget?
  • If rent or utilities must be paid with one check, how will you manage that? What happens if someone is late with a payment?
  • If an apartment has rooms of different sizes, or some people share a bedroom and some have individual rooms, how will rent be divided?
  • How far or close to campus do you want to be?
  • Do you have a car or need parking?
  • Is it important to you that you have your own bedroom and bathroom, or are you comfortable sharing?
  • How important is household and personal security to you? Do you lock the doors while at home?

Habits & beliefs

  • How important is a clean household? How frequently do you expect your roommate to participate in household cleaning?
  • Are you okay with personal property being left in common areas?
  • What are your expectations of noise? Are you a night owl or an early bird?
  • Are political or religious outlooks important to you?
  • What are your thoughts on clothing in common areas? Are you comfortable with your roommate being in common areas wearing only underwear or a towel? What about guests?

Eating, drinking & smoking

  • Do you have dietary restrictions or preferences? Do those restrictions or preferences limit how food is stored or consumed?
  • Is smoking an issue? Are certain areas off limits or designated for smoking?
  • What are your views on alcohol?

Guests

  • What do you believe is a reasonable limit on guests visiting and/or staying over?
  • Are there people (family members, significant other, friends) you expect will be stopping by frequently or for an extended period of time? How often?
  • If the apartment allows pets, would you be comfortable if one roommate brought a pet(s)? What kinds of pets and how many?

Relationship

  • What type of relationship are you looking for with your new roommate? Are you looking for someone to just hang out with or someone to just share the bills?
  • Do you want to share any household consumables or keep everything separate?
  • Would we share possessions like a television, cookware, or furniture? If so, what would the policy be for sharing these items?
  • If we were to disagree on something, what do you think is a good way to work through conflict?

Starting Your Search

Looking for a roommate? The Off-Campus Housing Roommate Finder can help!